Life changes
thrust us into situations for which we are often ill-prepared. While
each of us seeks stability in our lives, transition is a constant
companion:
§ Marriage
§ New baby
§ New job
§ Moving to a new town
§ Empty nest
§ Separation/divorce
§ Merged family
§ Retirement
You’ve been marching along
in your life, successfully doing what you’ve been doing in the way
you’ve always done it, and everything seems fine. Then suddenly, what
worked before no longer brings the desired results. Why? Because your
environment has changed.
Behaviors, and therefore outcomes, are the result of how we
interpret our environment. And when the environment changes, we usually
bring the same behaviors to the new problem as worked to solve the
old one. The result? Frustration, feeling lost, stress, afraid. More
than one empty nester has been heard to say, “I had no idea this was
going to hit me so hard.” And no wonder - everything they’re trying
has been based on interpretations of a world that just doesn’t exist
anymore.
Successful Transition
Requires Exploring
New Interpretations
Applying old interpretations
to new environments leads to resistance, confusion and feeling stuck.
Challenging those old rules and interpretations, and developing new
interpretations based on the new reality leads to effective behaviors
with positive outcomes.
When Facilitated Properly, Transition
Is The
Fuel For Growth And New Opportunities
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